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Hey, Dude. Skip the Flowers and Candy

Still have no clue on what to get your valentine? Don’t fret, man. We got you covered straight from the source: women.

Flowers + candy = great Valentine’s Day gift, right?

Well, not really. Some women say it’s actually pretty lame. Ouch!

While it’s safe to say no woman will turn down a bouquet of fresh roses and a box of their favorite candy, the offer appears routine. It's a safety net, especially on Valentine’s Day.

Women want to be appreciated, and sometimes the go-to flowers and candy combo just won’t cut it.

How do I know? They said so.

I asked local women on our Facebook page to discuss ideal gifts they would love to receive on Valentine's Day. Here are some of the more popular responses that are sure ways to show your appreciation for your main squeeze. Thank me later.

Oh you fancy, huh?

Nails done, hair done, everything did. Pamper your gal by treating her to a massage, pedicure, manicure and haircut. The whole works.

“Massage envy gift cards and gift cards to get a pedicure are always a plus.” —Casey Rae Henshaw.

“As a wife and hard-working stay-at-home mommy of two little ones, I really appreciate a gift certificate to get a massage.” —Trish Stimson Giraldo.

Use our directory to find local businesses offering these services.

Trade places

We often take for granted what women do after the 9 to 5 workday. Take those responsibilities away. Prepare dinner, help the children with schoolwork and wash the dishes.

“Do the dishes and cook an awesome dinner at home.” —Kaylan Flanagan.

“Just take over for the night. Cook dinner, help with homework, run the dishwasher and prepare the following days activities — and let me enjoy my Real Housewives marathon!” —Michelle Padagas

It's the simple things

Sometimes all it takes is alone time with your special gal. Get creative. It doesn't have to be expensive. They just want to spend time with you and have a good time. Don't forget the compliments.

“Just a date is perfect. Not even a fancy dinner! Even a picnic away from phones, work, kids and cell phones. I don't know what woman would pass that up! We just want your time and affection, not your money.” —Amanda Chapman

“Dinner for two, candles, music wine and adult conversation. Forget about every day stress. Throw in some cuddle time.” —Yolanda O’Brien.

“A few kind words (and gestures!) go a long way!!! We all want to be appreciated and loved!” —Victoria Aboumrad

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Californicated1 May 19, 2013 at 05:22 pm
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Californicated1 May 19, 2013 at 05:13 pm
If you want charging stations put up, then you should pay to put them up. The rest of us don't wantRead More to give people who drive electric vehicles the "free ride", especially as their fees for their own cars go up as Alameda County institutes their $20/year surcharge for vehicles registered in the county. I know one thing, if I had a charging station set up for people to charge their electric vehicles, I would be charging those people money for charging their cars at my station. The electricity your car may use to keep its battery charged will ultimately be paid for by somebody else under the scheme of "public" charging stations. It costs money to generate electricity and you should be paying for that electricity wherever and whenever you charge up, plain and simple, since you use that electricity and should be both paying for it and paying taxes on it like the rest of us. Perhaps treating charging stations like parking meters should be the solution, even for the owners of businesses downtown, who may not like the idea of paying for your electricity usage to your vehicle and may view somebody asking them to do that as a "freeloader" or a "parasite", much as I view them when they ask for more charging stations.
Annie May 19, 2013 at 01:18 pm
Seriously? AFGAHN food? Why can't we just get a Red Lobster or something?
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Eric Plummer May 18, 2013 at 09:57 am
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chris fleckner May 15, 2013 at 08:50 am
Thank you D! We couldn't be happier to have a program like this in our community. We couldn't agreeRead More with you more that giving back is the whole purpose of the program; to make our community a stronger more musical one for our youth!
DRevier May 15, 2013 at 07:50 am
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